19 It’s All About You | The Rising Tide | Don’t Rely On Externals To Make You Happy
Have you ever noticed that some days certain people and situations annoy you or even make you angry and on other days nothing seems to bother you? That’s because it’s rarely about the other person. It’s usually all about you. In this section I share something I call the “Iceberg Theory” that I learned from one of my counselors many years back that has helped me immensely in life.
As your inner healing and your outlook on life as well the sense of peace in your life increases, you will discover that others around you will also be affected in a positive way. Healing and peace will most likely permeate through your family. My wife and I have definitely experienced this.
My wife always says, “Don’t rely on someone else to make your happy. Be happy first.” Here’s the danger of only allowing external things to make you happy.